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Losing a relationship hurts. Breakups and going into no contact can be excruciating enough due to the loss of the relationship, but it can be so much worse when the person you lost was someone you never imagined would leave you. The punch you never see coming is the one that usually knocks you out. In a similar way, the loss of a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend when they always seemed so grateful and lucky to be with you. Maybe they were the one who chased you with so much intensity or desperation that it convinced you they could never "fall out of love" with you. They might have even struggled with jealousy and insecurity for so long that you felt like you were in the power position of the relationship. In many cases they may have begged and pleaded for you to commit long term for years while you were possibly distracted, working on your career or dating others because you weren't certain if they were "the one". Once the one you thought would never leave actually walks away, it becomes instinctive to hyper analyze everything you've done, said, and felt that contributed to the breakup. It will be feel undeniable that you caused it, even if they cheated on you, emotionally manipulated you and discarded you at the end. The internal upheaval a breakup like this causes can shake your perception of how you see yourself, the past, the present and future enough to convince you to chase the one who walked away with desperation in an attempt to "earn back" the person you are now convinced you took for granted. This video explains what to do and how to react whether you actually caused the breakup or if it was more the result of an authentic rejection or natural occurring breakup. Coach Ken will explain how to identify what caused the breakup and how to respond and approach any attempts to win back your ex.