After researching several books, podcasts, and YouTube channels, I came up with this list of the most important social behaviors that help attract people to you. Adopting these as habits takes practice but is well worth it.
⚬ Why social skill matters
⚬ Be authentic
⚬ Don't say "sorry" unless you did something wrong
⚬ Smile more
⚬ Eye contact
⚬ Hello old friend
⚬ Active listening
⚬ Put the spotlight on them
⚬ Convert questions to statements
⚬ Comm-YOU-nication
⚬ Thread cutting, self-engagement, open-ended questions
⚬ Prosaic with passion
⚬ Premature "we"
⚬ Responding to compliments
⚬ Parenthetical compliment
⚬ Use their name
⚬ Track minor details
⚬ Insinuate the quality you want
⚬ Ask them for a favor
⚬ Don't get defensive
SOURCES
‣ "How to Talk to Anyone 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships" by Leil Lowndes 2003
‣ "Atomic Habits" by James Clear
‣ "What Every Body is Saying" by Joe Navarro
‣ "Art of Seduction" by Robert Green
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