Charisma can feel hard to define, but we know it when we see it. In this video, we dive into 25 behaviors that can make someone truly magnetic, drawing insights from Vanessa Van Edwards' book Cues. You'll learn that charisma is defined by having the perfect balance of warmth and competence. This video shares practical tips for enhancing your charisma and influence, standing out, and connect deeply.
TIPS
• Hang by your teeth
• Be the chooser, not the choosie
• Reach you hand out first
• Mood match
• Read positive intent wherever possible
• Introduce people to each other
• Please share
• Ask follow-up questions
• Parroting
• Finish your sentence
• The bookmark
• The fish
• Eliminate filler words
• Don't auto-agree when you're unclear
• Fronting
• Don't hold something
• Nod
• No pecking
• Expansive posture
• Power steeple
• Broad, illustrative gesture
• Be the first to praise someone's work
SOURCES
‣ "How to Talk to Anyone 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships" by Leil Lowndes 2003
‣ "Cues" by Vanessa Van Edwards
‣ "What Every Body is Saying" by Joe Navarro
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