Ever wonder if you and your partner are truly compatible? In this video, we’ll chat about three major signs that can help you figure that out. These signs are key to building a strong and lasting relationship. I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments—what signs of compatibility have you noticed in your relationship? Let's talk about it!
Disclaimer: We are not professional therapists or relationship counselors. The information provided in this video is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always seek the guidance of a qualified professional for personalized advice on your relationship.
Researcher/Writer: Isadora Ho
Editor: Brie Villanueva
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Ashleigh
Animation: Fleur (new animator)
Project Manager: Cindy Cheong
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