Ashtat Alexis-Olubuyide is a student at The British School of Beijing, Shunyi (Year 7). I lost myself. I believed I wasn’t good enough. It took time but I finally realized I was letting other people's opinions define me, shape who I am. I star ted to rebuild, I learned to just be me, to finally love myself again and I came back stronger than ever before. The British School of Beijing, Shunyi (Year 7) – A Journey Back to Myself - I lost myself. I believed I wasn’t good enough. It took time, but I finally realised I was letting other people's opinions define me and shape who I am. I started to rebuild. I learned to just be me, to finally love myself again and I came back stronger than ever before. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx