Alone this Christmas? The pain of family rejection for the scapegoat.

I know what it’s like to spend Christmas alone - I’ve done it a few times. I know the pain of rejection from family of origin. In this video I discuss things we need to come to terms with as the family scapegoat, the real pain we need to heal and how to get through the ‘big day’. When we have tools in place to help the acute pain of the abandonment wound, this reduces the intensity of this time of year when the hype of happy family utopia is all around. All my content comes with a TRIGGER WARNING. Please be mindful of your window of tolerance as you consume this video. TIME STAMPS 00:00 Intro - what’s it like 01:48 You’re not alone with this pain 02:40 The main struggle - Grief & Loss (trigger warning) 13:46 Separate the grief of scapegoat child abuse from Dec 25 14:52 What are we really missing out on? 19:17 What we can do about it *** Download my Free E-book here: https://www.marytoolan.com/E-Book Join my monthly membership here: https://www.marytoolan.com/scr-membership My Website: https://www.marytoolan.com My 1:1 specialist recovery program here: https://www.marytoolan.com/coaching Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scapegoatchildrecovery Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scapegoatchildrecovery/ ***