Dating in the modern day is, unpleasant at best
It can bring up a mix of internal and external emotions as you get to know someone. If you're like me, you find yourself wondering if the other person is genuinely interested in getting to know you as time goes on
You may even find yourself debating if the other person is avoidant, or if they're just not interested in you based on signs that you notice. If that's the case, then this video is for you!
In this video, I highlight the differences between someone avoidant versus someone who is just simply not interested in you to begin with along with some advice on how to proceed regardless of their attachment style or interest level in you
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:28 Who is this Charlie guy and why should I care what he thinks?
01:07 Are They Avoidant or Just Not Interested?
01:40 Avoidant Sign 1: Inconsistent Communication
02:13 Avoidant Sign 2: Fear of Intimacy
02:43 Avoidant Sign 3: Need for Space
03:50 Avoidant Sign 4: Reluctance to Commit
04:27: Some Things to Consider
04:55 Signs Someone is Not Interested
05:09 Not Interested Sign 1: Consistent Lack of Engagement
06:04 Not Interested Sign 2: No Effort in Planning
07:08 Not Interested Sign 3: Minimal Effort in General
07:59 Not Interested Sign 4: Connection Lacks Depth
08:43 Avoidants Can Still Be Disinterested In You
09:23 Why This Comparison Comes Up
10:15 Rationalizing Emotions
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