In this episode, we’re joined by Cody Daigle-Orians, aka Ace Dad Advice, an asexuality educator, influencer, and author who’s here to help us break down asexual and aromantic identities with humor and heart. From discovering your ace identity to navigating relationships outside society's romantic and sexual norms, Cody offers insights, ally tips, and myths debunked.
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00:00 Overview
01:32 How did you discover asexuality?
06:45 What does it mean to be asexual/aromantic?
09:01 What are the sub-categories of ace/aro
16:04 What are the signs you might be ace/aro
18:51 What is compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity?
23:03 Asexual or just low libito?
26:25 Common misconceptions
30:47 What can ace/aro teach us?
36:23 Relationships and sex
43:52 Queer platonic relationships
48:37 Managing partner expectations
51:15 Key to successful relationships
54:37 Advice for youth
01:00:08 Marginalization of ace/aro people
01:07:57 Health disparities for ace/aro folks
01:1:59 How can we be better allies?