How can you effectively use #praise to #inspire people? To positively #motivate them to behave in the way you want them to? To #connect with them more deeply? This video offers four common mistakes and fixes.
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References:
- Benefits of constructive criticism:
- https://builtin.com/articles/constructive-criticism
- https://datalligence.ai/blogs/constructive-criticism/
- https://www.spokk.io/blog/why-is-constructive-criticism-important
- Po Bronson's article: https://nymag.com/news/features/27840/
- Doug Lemov's article: https://teachlikeachampion.org/blog/coaching-and-practice/praise-carol-dweck-beyond/
- Other articles on effective praise:
- https://www.armyresilience.army.mil/ard/R2/Effective-Praise.html (This is directly from the Army's MRT program)
- https://www.thoughtco.com/effective-praise-8161
- https://behavioralinstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/Can-you-praise-your-child-too-much.pdf
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/one-among-many/202012/the-trouble-praise
- https://bingschool.stanford.edu/news/praising-intelligence-costs-childrens-self-esteem-and-motivation
- https://strobeleducation.com/blog/the-power-of-effective-praise-a-guide-for-teachers/
- Mindset by Carol Dweck: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322/ref=sr_1_1
- Teach Like A Champion by Doug Lemov: https://www.amazon.com/Teach-Like-Champion-Doug-Lemov/dp/1119712610/ref=sr_1_1
- Look for the Good Skill: https://youtu.be/KWY4sFaXPeU&list=PLHlRaMe9xkXaFoSHh_ZBAJi7l1pbr-Otm
- 6 Things Resilient People Have: https://youtu.be/9DtLeiczj20&list=PLHlRaMe9xkXaFoSHh_ZBAJi7l1pbr-Otm
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Footnote:
- I understand this is still a problem in many households. One of the books I've read recently that talked about this gender inequity was Can't Even: How Millennials Became the Burnout Generation by Anne Helen Peterson.
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Credits:
- Thank you as always to BenSound.com for the music!
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:35 - Constructive Criticism
04:01 - What is Effective Praise?
04:42 - Mistake #1
05:28 - Mistake #2
06:08 - Mistake #3
07:43 - Mistake #4
08:30 - Fix #1
09:21 - Fix #2
10:30 - Fix #3
11:30 - Fix #4
12:54 - Takeaways
15:49 - Example
16:37 - Conclusion