Adult survivors of scapegoat abuse in their families typically have high ACE (Adverse Childhood Experience) scores and suffer from complex trauma symptoms as well as chronic illness. And yet, many wonder WHY can't they "just get over" their (abusive) childhoods? Scapegoat Trauma expert Rebecca C. Mandeville (author of the best-selling book on family scapegoating, 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed') explains why family scapegoating abuse (FSA) can result in a variety of chronic illnesses, as confirmed by research addressing Adverse Childhood Experience(s) (ACEs). She also shares why therapists who understand the consequences of scapegoat trauma will often recommend "going no contact" with abusive family members.
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💡Watch a related video from my channel: Why Scapegoats May Need to Go 'No Contact' to Heal: https://youtu.be/F1VH48JwuNA
🔥Trigger Warning: If you feel activated watching this video, turn it off and perhaps return to it at another time or consult a licensed Mental Health professional. Viewer comments may contain descriptions of child abuse and neglect and can also be activating.
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Rebecca C. Mandeville is a thought leader and recognized expert in abusive family systems. She is also the author of 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role' and a clinical expert in YouTube's Health Partner Program. You can visit her website at https://scapegoatrecovery.com.
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🔴 NEED HELP NOW? Being scapegoating can be extremely traumatizing. If you feel in danger of harming yourself, this is a list of international hotlines where you can speak to someone: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines/ You might also find some appropriate resources here via this site for people struggling with complex trauma symptoms due to personality disordered parenting, etc. https://outofthefog.website/toolbox-1/2015/11/17/complex-post-traumatic-stress-disorder-c-ptsd
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