Hmong metaphor/proverb (paaj lug): Ua qoob ces zoo thawj kim, ua luam ces zoo thawj ntsug, yuav quas puj/quas yawg ces zoo thawj tug
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Like many things, such as cars, there is a maintenance period and we should not ignore it as it could potentially precipitate into something detrimental. Sometimes...it may be more convenient to throw in the towel and start over, but the nostalgic feelings we are unable to repress. And sometimes, its really not that bad at all...perhaps we just have the tendency to overthink or blow something small into something larger and out of proportion. We also have to be mindful of what we have and not take things for granted. Although there may not be any obvious and apparent issues externally, what is precipitating internally although unseen can destroy a marriage. Trust your gut feelings and take care of each other. Don't be bashful, shy, or embarrass to have fun with each other...enjoy your time with each other and continue to schedule regular maintenance so that your engine will run forever!