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EP #100 - How We Actually Found Love on the Apps | Featuring Our Boyfriends
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The boys are back in town! The kings to our kings (just go with it), Justin and Ryan, join Caroline and Jess to talk all about dating apps. Who better to discuss the apps than four people who met on them? The barbershop quartet discusses listener WHATADOs, like what photos to include on your profile, how to revive a dead conversation, tips for finding the balance between red flags and judgment, and FaceTiming or sending photos before you actually meet your match.
Besides touching on falling for someone you’d never expect and a few dating/app dealbreakers, they also dissect what worked on their partner’s profiles. The episode ends where their relationships began: talking about their first few dates and how they went from the app to the altar. (Just kidding…for now.)
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Contents of this Video
00:00 - Intro
00:27 - Welcome to the DATING APP episode!!
2:35 - What we'll cover in this episode, and the next episode
7:10 - Are dating apps really necessary?
11:55 - Include a hot photo of you from years ago?
14:20 - What photos to put on your profile
20:15 - Crowd sourcing your profile
22:00 - What to write on your profile
24:00 - Sorry we're cozy
26:08 - What Ryan loved about Jess's profile
28:30 - This is NOT helping your profile
31:00 - How to revive a conversation on the apps?
37:15 - Don't be afraid to do this
41:43 - What Caroline loved about Justin's profile
45:40 - How to see Red Flags, vs. being TOO judgemental?
45:30 - How to filter in an effective way
54:00 - Recognizing your "TOXIC TYPE"
56:41 - OMFG
1:02:20 - Ryan's Type
1:03:35 - Justin's Toxic Type
1:06:20 - Ryan's Toxic Type
1:07:00 - Watch out for THIS
1:08:15 - Caroline's Toxic Type
1:09:35 - How to eliminate CATFISHING
1:14:45 - Date dealbreakers
1:21:00 - The biggest challenge on the apps
1:24:00 - Embracing awkwardness
1:27:00 - Caroline and Justin's first date
1:31:00 - Jess and Ryan's first date
1:35:00 - Stay tuned for PART 2!!!!
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Intro Music: “Doja Dance” by PALA
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