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How to Love an Avoidant Man: Stop Chasing, Start Attracting
Welcome to my channel! I'm Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist.
In this video, we'll dive into a common question I receive: "If chasing an avoidant man makes him bail out of the relationship because he hates feeling that pressure, then what on earth is the right way to draw him into the relationship based on his own desires?"
Here’s what you’ll learn:
The Impact of Chasing an Avoidant Man:
Why do avoidant men run away when they feel pressured.
How your anxious attachment style might be affecting your relationship.
The psychological and emotional dynamics behind the chase and withdraw pattern.
Understanding Avoidant Attachment:
The root causes of avoidant attachment styles.
How avoidant men perceive risk and why they fear deep intimacy.
The role of dopamine and other brain chemicals in avoidant attachment.
Effective Strategies to Attract Him:
The importance of self-regulation and emotional discipline.
How to communicate your needs using the “what, why, and how often” method.
Speaking his language to build trust and intimacy.
I’m Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, with over 15 years of experience in psychology and relationships. I’ve helped thousands of clients worldwide and millions online. This channel recently hit 65,000 subscribers, thanks to all of you who are seeking healthy, fulfilling relationships!
What You Need to Know:
Avoidant men need two main things to thrive in a relationship:
A partner who is fully self-regulated and never chases.
Clear, measurable communication of needs.
Avoidant men operate on a risk assessment basis:
Instead of feeling emotionally loved, they need concrete, understandable actions.
Present your needs in a way that highlights benefits for both of you.
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Chapters:
00:00:00 - Letting Go of an Avoidant Man
00:02:39 - The Survival Mode of Avoidant Attachment Style
00:05:16 - The Internal Response to Abandonment Wounds
00:07:50 - The Worst Instinct: Chasing in Relationships
00:10:18 - Breaking the Pattern of Avoidant Attachment Style
00:12:41 - Self-Regulation and Secure Attachment
00:15:13 - Effective Communication in Relationships
00:17:46 - The Importance of Emotional Regulation
00:20:17 - How to Attract an Avoidant Man
00:22:42 - Avoidant Attachment Style Revelation