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Dating could be really tricky. Showing up pretty, well-dressed, and well-spoken is not going to guarantee a great dating experience. Modern women like us want to put real work on our mindset, and make sure that our magnetic glow is as genuine as it is irresistible. We have all heard countless feminine energy tips to take care of your love life and elevate your well-being. But how deeply do we understand them, and how well do we implement them in real life?
I'm here to provide us with a solution to that. Debrief Sesh is a community made by women for women everywhere with the same goal: understand what it means to be a high-value woman to ourselves. We respect differences, and honor the fact that every woman has her own vision of who she wants to be, and how she wants to be perceived. By discussing dating role models and female characters on TV series, dating shows, and popular culture moments, we turn these conversations into reflection tools, and figure out what it means for each of us to be our own dream girl.
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Today, you are invited into an insightful exploration of self-empowerment and assertiveness through my analysis of Song Jia and Choi Hyeseon. Known for their confidence and self-advocacy, these girls are human guides on this essential life skill.
There will be an emphasis on situational awareness as a tool to enhance your ability to advocate for yourself in various situations. I will further explore the importance of setting boundaries in dating, recognizing personal limits, experiencing and communicating your emotions.
This discussion will help you answer the question 'how to be the it girl' with charisma, authenticity, and self-assurance.
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Pop culture context for clueless girlies (you're not alone, don't worry):
- Singles Inferno is a Korean Netflix dating show that has taken the world by storm from its first season, which was aired in 2021. The newest seasons have really taken it to another level with a lot of interesting characters and drama. In the show, attractive and young contestants are left stranded on an deserted island, and the only way to leave is to couple up and win a date in paradise.
- Song Ji-a is the most popular contestant in the first season. In fact, her presence was so iconic that she has been mentioned every time a new season of Single's Inferno airs. She's usually referred to as the it-girl for her magnetic charm, and she's been an inspiration for many girls and women. Her confidence is just as admirable as her social skills, which helps her become the most popular pick both during and after the show.
- Situational awareness is the ability to perceive, process, and comprehend information about one's surroundings and the environment in real-time. IN other words, it means being aware of what is happening around you, understanding the implications of those events, and anticipating how they might unfold. Watch the video to answer this question: what is situational awareness and how can it keep you safe? Also, what does it have anything to do with setting boundaries in dating?
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⏰ timestamps
00:00 intro
02:01 situational awareness is key
07:50 agreeableness should come from your ability to be disagreeable
13:58 you can't draw boundaries without knowing where they are
17:10 how to go about drawing boundaries
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