I’ve made it a personal rule, when I’m offended, to chalk it up to people’s inability to communicate effectively. It’s proven to be useful and, typically, correct. But how can the activity we engage in more than anything else (with the exception of sleep) be something so many men are horribly deficient with?
That’s a question my guest, Jefferson Fisher, has spend decades understanding and, over the last several years, teaching over 10,000,000 of his social media followers how to address. Today Jefferson and I talk about avoiding miscommunication, how to be assertive in communication – but not an asshole, when diplomacy and advocacy connect and contradict, why learning not to, “take the bait” of others will serve you, learning the rules of the communication game, and why control, confidence, and connection will set you apart.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
- (00:00) Episode Intro
- (00:40) Effective Communication and Assertive Conversations
- (15:10) Direct Communication for Difficult Conversations
- (19:48) Respectful and Considerate Communication Skills
- (31:09) Navigating Egos in Professional Interactions
- (43:16) Personal Rules and Self-Advocacy in Communication
- (52:04) Parenting and Professional Likability
- (57:09) Authentic Communication and Self-Evaluation
- (01:06:38) Podcast Connection and Shared Mindset
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