Dr. George Simon discusses the covert aggression of narcissists and individuals without conscience, the path to escape abusers, and the process of healing.
00:00 - People can fight dirty and look good
00:25 - How manipulation always works
01:48 - People hide their fighting
02:45 - Fighting dirty and looking good
03:30 - Narcissists use the same tactics
03:50 - Putting you on the defensive
05:49 - Narcissists use group manipulation
08:07 - Exposing Narcissists in groups
10:26 - Backlash after leaving an abuser
11:26 - Therapy with a Narcissist is traumatic
12:05 - Exit fast. No threats.
12:35 - How to find allies
13:21 - Saying "No" to a Narcissist is dangerous
13:52 - Most Important Thing: Building relationships with allies
14:36 - How victims overcome learned helplessness
14:56 - Slot Machine Syndrome and depression
15:23 - Manipulators control your attention
15:55 - Power lies in your actions
17:06 - Abusers can see their abuse
18:13 - Prepare for a SMEAR CAMPAIGN
19:47 - Looking good is easier than being good
20:54 - How Narcissists change your reality and history
21:34 - People believe lies when repeated
22:40 - Narcissist's fan club believes lies
23:06 - Narcissists cast a spell on you
24:11 - People who care too much or not enough
25:02 - Preying on people's conscience
27:22 - Signs of the Gaslighting Effect
27:39 - Believing in a fantasy with a Narcissist
29:03 - Look for previous victims
30:04 - Narcissism is not one-dimensional
31:59 - Gaslighting: the ultimate manipulation
34:41 - How to make Gaslighting even worse
35:14 - Stacking manipulation tactics in SMEAR CAMPAIGN
36:03 - Strategies against SMEAR CAMPAIGN
37:37 - Fundamental Rule of dealing with manipulation
39:21 - When you recognize a manipulation
39:35 - The Greatest Empowerment: Accept that people fight
40:14 - The healthy form of fighting
41:39 - How to build personal power
42:54 - Internal validation is key
44:13 - Dr. Peter Salerno's question
44:57 - Chronic grandiosity is destructive
48:06 - Inaccurate psychology is harmful
51:15 - False paradigms keep victims stuck in abuse
53:34 - How to confront behavior in relationships
55:16 - How victimization starts
57:14 - First tactics of an abuser!
58:18 - Regret, remorse, and contrition
1:00:28 - How to build your character
1:01:37 - Dr. Simon's work
1:04:00 - What is healing? How do we get there?
1:06:26 - SHARE this episode. Raise awareness about narcissistic abuse.
DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice from a qualified healthcare provider.
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RELATED LINKS
Dr. Peter Salerno on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM
Sam Vaknin on Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/MVulOdCa1YU
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery: https://youtu.be/XXP941XRLUI
Narcissistic Relationships Episode: https://youtu.be/dl52f2vy7FQ
Dr. George Simon's book: https://amzn.to/41GQUhH
Dr. George Simon's website: www.drgeorgesimon.com
Dr. George Simon's channel: @georgeksimon
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How to Defeat Narcissists and Manipulation | Dr. George Simon