How to not crash out if you are spiraling because you have never had a relationship! In this video, I'm going to walk you through what I've been working on with myself so that I don't allow my self-pity and self-loathing to take over my life. Just because you have never been in a relationship doesn't mean anything about you - The only meaning it has is what you assign it. That means you have total control here!
You can find notes here: https://getoutofyourownway.net/never-relationship-video-notes
Video & title inspired by https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R-2_cOSdUYc by @ChristinaAaliyah
Pew Research Center Study → https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2015/10/01/basics-of-teen-romantic-relationships/
🔹 Chapters:
0:00 Feeling okay about never being in a relationship
1:07 👋 & 📝
1:45 Having no experience in high school doesn't make you weird
2:58 How early experiences shape your self-perception
5:08 You're not ugly, dude
7:03 How mindset & self worth affecting dating/relationships
7:58 You're not "behind"
10:04 Why you crave someone to "choose" you
13:40 The pitfalls of pedestalizing romantic relationships
14:36 The trade-offs of being in a relationship
15:19 Independence vs romantic inclination spectrum
17:44 The importance of self-reliance in relationships
18:28 The emotional evolution of singleness
19:23 The weird landscape of modern dating
22:04 Letting go of the competition mindset in dating
23:02 Rewriting your story
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My name is Charlotte and I make content for people who want to get out of their own way. We talk about tools and strategies to help you live the life you love.
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