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Topics in this video:
0:40 The avoidant perspective - what’s happening under the surface for a person with avoidant attachment
1:26 The Strange Situation experiment and how avoidant kids responded
3:08 How to help create a safe environment for your avoidant partner to open up
4:00 Why people with avoidant attachment feel less safe opening up or being vulnerable - it starts early
4:56 Using mirroring to help an avoidant partner feel more understood
Mentioned in this video:
Co-regulate and feel more emotional safety with a partner
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MYZ1jO8niXQ
A lot of people talk about being frustrated with a dynamic they end up in where they feel like they’re doing all the work in the relationship, or their partner isn’t really interested, or they ask their partner what’s wrong and the person shuts down or pulls away. This video shares strategies to connect to your avoidant partner and help them feel more safe and understood so they can open up more with you.
COURSE TO CHANGE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT PATTERNS:
https://www.kaylilarkin.com/secure-attachment-rewire-sp
BOUNDARIES COURSE FOR ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT:
https://www.kaylilarkin.com/boundaries-course-for-anxious-attachment-enroll
1 ON 1 COACHING:
https://www.kaylilarkin.com/services
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