I’m Shridhar, a Counselling Psychologist. I share with you dos and don'ts when it comes to making your partner do something for you.
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0:00 Intro
0:11 How not to make your partner do something #1 Focus on what's lacking
0:41 How not to make your partner do something #2 Demanding and ordering
1:21 How not to make your partner do something #3 Comparing with others
2:30 How not to make your partner do something #4 Personal attacks
3:04 How not to make your partner do something #5 Threats of leaving
4:09 How not to make your partner do something #6 Taunting
5:12 How not to make your partner do something #7 Verbal or physical abuse
5:59 How not to make your partner do something #8 Silent treatment
7:40 How to make your partner do something #1 Use reason and logic
9:30 How to make your partner do something #2 Use reciprocation
11:01 How to make your partner do something #3 Use love
12:08 Bonus guidelines #1 Always be prepared for a No
13:43 Bonus guidelines #2 If it's your desire, you do it
14:25 Do your thoughts need air ventilation?