Be yourself. And if that’s not who they’re looking for at least you won’t get in too deep before they find out..
And you know what? Maybe they don’t actually like sophisticated. Perhaps strong silent types don’t do it for them.
Maybe they’ll love your upfront sense of humor. Perhaps they want to be with someone who needs a bit of looking after
If you fake it you’ll attract someone who belongs with a person who isn’t you . And how will that help??