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No Contact can be one of the hardest things to do following a painful breakup. The combination of fear telling you to act now in order to "save the relationship" or to find another way to reach out and remind them of the love you shared not too long ago can feel overwhelming. After all "fighting to save your relationship" sounds like the right things to do. Logic and fear make it seem like doing nothing is only allowing valuable time and space to grow and push them further from you. The truth is chasing someone who doesn't make the choice to be with you doesn't project strength or loyalty or prove the depth of love as much as it accidentally makes you seem desperate, clingy, co-dependent or even weak in some cases - but the pain can compel you to do something even if you know there is only a slight chance of it successfully pulling them back to you. This video is for people in no contact but tempted to reach out, temped to give up, but still very much in love and hoping for a way to get one more chance with the person they lost. Take a deep breath. Understand the best way to win someone back is in many ways identical to the path to get over them. Remind yourself that the key to triggering re-examination of you and re-attraction towards you is you projecting more strength than loyalty, more value than pain, and more purpose than having them be the center of your world.