"Only Feelings Are Real" is a series by Kai Collective centered around human relationships and conversations.
@fisayolonge sits down with @thelifeandtimesofs discuss losing a sibling and living with the accompanying grief.
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Cast: @thelifeandtimesofs @fisayolonge
DP/Cinematographer: @sebdegni
Assistant Director: @abxola @jasminjulietta
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
02:01 “Only Feelings Are Real” Conversation Cards
03:31 What Was Your Childhood Like?
04:48 Tell Us About Your Brother
05:40 What Did You Love Most About Obi?
07:09 Can You Tell Us A Specific Memory Or Story About Obi, That You Hold Dear To Your Heart
08:52 Can You Tell Us About The Days Immediately Following His Passing?
10:07 Are There Things That You Would Have Never Have Done Before His Passing, That Now You Would Do Or Have Done?
10:50 Who Is The One Person That You Would Say Has Been There For You Through This Experience, And What Is Special About How They Were There For You?
16:44 What Should People Say Or Do To Someone Who Is Grieving?
23:50 What Are The Things People Should Not Say To Someone Who Is Grieving
26:01 How Has Your Relationships With Other Family Members Or Friends Been Impacted By Your Brothers Passing?
27:44 What About Romantic Relationships?
30:39 What Impact Has Religion Had On Your Life And Your Grief?
31:42 Is There Anything You've Learned About Yourself Through This That You Had No Idea About Before January 2021
33:04 What Are Some Unexpected Ways That Grief Manifest Itself In Your Everyday Life?
35:23 Have You Been Able To Experience The Emotion Of Happiness?
36:30 Is There Anything You Wish People Understood Better About What You're Going Through?
37:53 Can You Tell Us About The Initiative You Started In Honor Of Your Brother?
38:49: Outro: Describe The Future That You Hope For.