Oversharing, Trauma Dumping, Cringe, and our hatred of vulnerability 😬

Get your exclusive NordVPN deal here ➼ https://nordvpn.com/bryony It's risk-free with Nord's 30-day money-back guarantee! Oversharing is not pretty, it's awkward and uncomfortable for the person who is oversharing and the person being overshared to. But what truly is oversharing? Is anything beyond the weather a topic "too real" for us to handle? Why can't we cope with the fact people cry and have a full range of human experiences, instead expecting a perfect façade at all times? Have our experiences of being hurt ourselves made us hate seeing when others are "being cringe"? There's so much to explore here Let's connect: IG: https://www.instagram.com/bryonyclaire_vegan/?hl=en business enquiries only: [email protected] Timestamps: 00:00 intro 04:42 the types of attitudes towards oversharing - and NordVPN 07:00 "ew that's personal" and the customer facing struggle 10:02 The Miranda - vulnerability is weakness 14:58 The Charlotte - reputation is key 19:19 The Carrie - the chaotic oversharer 22:57 The Samantha - the "this is me" 24:33 the downsides of being a good listener 26:49 How this affects people with PTSD or who are neurodivergent 31:08 The need for community 33:10 Final thoughts Videos referenced: @2Danny2Furious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIHJ_UFrgVY @KhadijaMbowe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUNpE6jkBus @TeeNoir https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hwtueIlcWR0&t=9s @ContraPoints https://www.youtube.com/@ContraPoints/videos @MickeyAtkins Sources: https://wordoftheyear.wordpress.com/tag/websters-new-world/ https://chadd.org/attention-article/teach-your-child-to-read-the-room/ https://www.dictionary.com/browse/trauma-dumping https://friends.fandom.com/wiki/Phoebe_Buffay#:~:text=The%20children's%20step%2Dfather%20went,a%20burnt%2Dout%20Buick%20LeSabre. https://psychcentral.com/health/trauma-dumping https://theface.com/life/why-do-we-find-stuff-cringe https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/too_much_informationhttps://chadd.org/attention-article/teach-your-child-to-read-the-room/https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2024/jan/25/oversharing-social-media-privacy-anxietyhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/blog/speaking-in-tongues/202309/too-much-information#:~:text=Oversharing%20can%20create%20a%20false,such%20as%20anxiety%20and%20depression.https://www.oed.com/dictionary/oversharing_n?tl=truehttps://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-big-questions/201108/we-see-in-others-what-we-fear-in-ourselves https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/nurturing-self-compassion/201703/the-psychology-hate https://www.annualreviews.org/content/journals/10.1146/annurev-psych-010213-115146 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1367549420985852 https://tinyurl.com/australiaprotest https://theconversation.com/to-overshare-the-long-and-gendered-history-of-tmi-45070 https://www.vox.com/even-better/23892562/messy-art-posting-through-it-instagram-tiktok