Today, we sit down with Jinger Duggar Vuolo, author of "People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations," to talk about her new book and how she put an end to her people-pleasing tendencies. We discuss how she broke out of legalism and learned the true gospel as she sought to glorify God with her life and how biblical modesty is the standard to which we should aspire. Jinger also tells us how her people-pleasing ultimately hurt her ability to be in community and gives other people pleasers advice on how to stop focusing so much on the selfish need to belong and how to let others into their lives.
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Timecodes:
00:00 Introduction
02:25 About "People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations"
08:57 Teachings of Bill Gothard
13:44 People pleasing behavior
17:45 Biblical standards of modesty
22:16 Pleasing God vs. pleasing man
32:06 Trading down
40:44 People-pleasing is selfish
44:01 The heart behind hospitality
48:07 Advice for people-pleasers
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Related Episodes:
Ep 745 | Life as a Duggar & Letting Go of Legalism | Guest: Jinger Duggar Vuolo
https://youtu.be/Nj6Wv-1I4v4?si=0U_x6jDdJr7PYW4B
Ep 777 | On Duggar Theology, Josh’s Arrest, & Media Lies | Guests: Jinger Duggar Vuolo & Jeremy Vuolo
https://youtu.be/muUUi_o0xvI?si=YqvIukXh-H1KEvHL
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