What are red flags to look for in dating? How about deal breakers? Should guys or girls make the first move? How do I discern God’s voice amidst my own emotions?
So many people have reached out to ask Cliff and Wai Jia about relationships that they felt a deep calling to create Couch Convos—a space to tackle tough relationship questions with truth and love.
Fun fact: Their couch isn’t just a prop—it’s the very place where they’ve had countless deep conversations (and yes, even heated debates!) over 12 years of marriage, across a dozen homes around the world.
Join them as they open their hearts with raw honesty and vulnerability.
In this episode, we explore:
0:49 What do church youth consider as “red flags”?
2:55 Cliff's Red Flags: Mismatch of Values
3:47 Having a hard time spotting "red flags" : Accountability
5:58 Wai Jia's Red Flags: Duplicity Lack of Consistency
8:37 Cliff's Red Flags: Interaction with family & Friends/Dealing with Conflict
9:10 Is it a deal breaker when someone doesn't have a good relationship with their parents?
11:05 Dealing with Mental Health Issues
12:57 What if it doesn't work out and I lose a friendship?
15:34 Is it okay for women to make the first move?
19:09 How do you hear God's voice in a relationship?
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