Hayley and Courtney bravely unmask the devastating impacts of sexual shaming in the LDS Church. Representing Provo and Rexburg, two cities with highly dense Mormon populations, Courtney & Hayley reveal how dogmatic teachings warp self-worth and consent. This raw conversation offers validation and healing for those grappling with religious sexual shame, charting a path toward self-acceptance and empowerment.
Show Notes: https://www.mormonstories.org/portfolio-items/dark-side-of-mormon-college/
Chapters
00:00:00 Introductions
00:03:03 Courtney’s Intentions for coming on Mormon Stories
00:05:00 Growing up Mormon
00:09:15 What it was like being in the church as a non-believer
00:15:30 Stories of comparing herself to others
00:18:35 Conversations around sexuality
00:26:45 Her first sexual experience
00:32:42 Stories of lack of consent
00:44:15 Why second base would make her feel ruined?
00:49:55 Talking to the bishop about what happened
00:57:00 The importance of being a virgin in Mormonism
01:10:20 Being treated differently because she lost her virginity
01:19:35 Marriage and divorce
01:40:20 Recommendations for Mormon leaders or people who have experienced these things
01:50:20 Summary of points
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