This is how Harvard and MIT messed me up mentally.
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I share how attending Harvard and MIT affected my mindset, making me feel less confident and behind in life, despite what might look like a successful track record. But this isn’t just about elite universities—it’s about how we all naturally compare ourselves to those around us, and how that comparison can fuel feelings of dissatisfaction and failure.
Drawing on research, personal anecdotes, and reflections on human psychology, I explore why ambitious people often feel unhappy, why our brains fixate on relative achievement rather than absolute success, and why even top performers get stuck in this cycle of comparison. More importantly, I offer guidance on how to break free, gain perspective, and find healthier, more constructive ways to measure our progress.
Whether or not you’ve set foot in an Ivy League institution, this talk is for anyone who’s ever felt insecure or inadequate in the face of others’ accomplishments. Stay tuned for insights and practical advice on reclaiming your confidence and redefining your personal benchmarks for success.
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0:00 - Intro
1:35 - Why confidence matters for your career
4:41 - Happiness and confidence are functions of relative comparison
6:01 - How did Harvard and MIT mess me up mentally?
9:15 - Nobody is really happy and satisfied
9:50 - This is why you're dissatisfied with life
12:32 - Masterschool sponsorship
13:46 - Do I regret attending Harvard and MIT?
Disclaimer: This video was sponsored by Masterschool
Credits: The STEM degree persistence study was inspired by Malcolm Gladwell