I read almost 100 science articles on flirtation. Here's what I figured out.
There are 3 core principles that guide flirtation. When things go wrong, it's generally because we're breaking one of these unwritten rules of flirting. Often this means skipping stages or getting stuck in an early phase. I use "The Flirting Scale" as a reference point to help.
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