The Three Toxic Dating Rules That Sabotaged My Love Life
Have you ever been told to "play hard to get" or "never text first" in relationships? In this revealing story, I share how following my sister's three rigid dating rules nearly destroyed my chance at finding genuine love.
Rule #1: Never chase. Rule #2: No intimacy before commitment. Rule #3: Love yourself more than him. These seemingly protective dating strategies turned into relationship self-sabotage as I built emotional walls that no one could penetrate.
The story follows my journey with Martin, a sincere man who genuinely cared for me, and how my fear of vulnerability and constant mixed signals eventually pushed him away. I was so focused on following these dating psychology "tricks" that I couldn't recognize authentic connection when it was right in front of me.
After losing Martin and repeating the same pattern with Wayne, I finally confronted the toxic dating advice that had been guiding my relationships. This story explores the dangerous line between healthy relationship boundaries and emotional unavailability.
If you've ever struggled with dating mindgames or fear of intimacy, this story might help you recognize how emotional honesty and relationship vulnerability are the true foundations of lasting connection. Sometimes what we think is self-protection in relationships is actually self-sabotage.
Join me on this journey of discovering that real love isn't about strategy—it's about showing up authentically, even when it's scary.
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