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No Contact was hard enough, but you were able to stop yourself from reaching out and they missed you enough to text or call and ask to talk, or to meet up in person, so now what. Do you share with them all of the ways you've improved yourself and all of the ways you've realized how you could have been better when you were dating. The heartbreak was painful but you learned a lot and you want to show them how much better things would be if the two of you got back together. Do you pour your heart out or do you play if cool? Do you ask if they were with someone else or do you tell them if you were dating? Do you try to make the meeting last as long as possible or try to pretend like you don't care either way? Do you try to jump back into a long term commitment or take it nice and slow? After No Contact ends there will be a lot of emotions hitting you. Anxiety and fear drops but gets replaced with excitement and a new kind of fear - the fear of losing them all over again if you don't handle the first contact the right way.