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Ever wonder why dismissive avoidants pull away—yet can’t seem to let go of one person in particular? Learn who their emotional Kryptonite really is and how this intense connection affects both partners.
In today’s video, Thais Gibson reveals the one person who acts as the emotional Kryptonite to dismissive avoidants—and why they find it so hard to walk away. Discover how fearful avoidants trigger deep shame and fear in DAs, while also creating irresistible emotional hooks that keep them tethered. Watch now to learn why this dynamic is so intense and how to navigate it with clarity, healing, and self-empowerment, as Thais offers key insights and practical tools to transform attachment struggles into growth.
00:00:00 – Introduction: The Dismissive Avoidant Dynamic
00:01:00 – Why the Fearful Avoidant is so triggering
00:01:30 – What makes DAs stay despite the pain
00:02:26 – Hot and cold cycles & intermittent reinforcement
00:03:35 – Feeling more emotions, fewer fears
00:05:03 – Why you shouldn’t use mind games
00:06:00 – Building emotional resilience the healthy way
00:06:49 – The danger of volatility in long-term dynamics
00:08:01 – Why DAs fear losing their connection
00:09:00 – Letting someone past the wall: Why it matters
00:10:30 – The DA's biggest internal conflict
00:11:00 – Final thoughts and next steps
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