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A lot of women who are in the position of having an ex break up with them is if they need to walk away or try to get them back.
Frank Sinatra said, “The best revenge in life is a massive success”, and that tends to be the idea I like to recommend others to grasp onto after their boyfriend breaks up with them. But what I notice is a lot of women don’t understand that there is one specific strategy that you need to improve.
Rather than a strategy it should be seen as a mantra that you should live your life by.
So, here is something you probably didn’t know, there is actually a specific type of woman that almost every single man will regret after a break up, will regret breaking up with. I like to call this woman the Ungettable Girl. Now asking me to define what the Ungettable Girl is like asking me to define what the colour blue is.
Everyone will have a different interpretation of what an Ungettable Girl is, to prove that I recently asked in my Private Facebook Group what Ungettable meant to them. I got all sorts of interesting types of answers.
For example;
“Loving myself and living a full and happy life, not being afraid to set boundaries.”
“You’re finally feeling your self-worth.”
“Being able to find the joy in life, no matter what...”
“You make men, your b*tches”
So, as you can see everyone has a different interpretation of what being Ungettable is, but one is clear, I have been studying these types of people and they react to a break up in a totally different way.
Everything that is done by an Ungetttable Girl, is done through the lens of a No Contact rule, whether this is to move on from their ex or get their ex back. So, what is a No Contact rule?
It is a period of time, where you ignore your ex from anywhere between 21 days and 45 days. In which, you are ignoring your ex on purpose. The intent is obviously to make your ex miss you, allows you to rebuild your life.
The Ungettable Girl will use the No Contact rule in three phases;
#1 - Before the No Contact Period,
You may be thinking what is there to do before the No Contact rule, where the average person just goes straight into the No Contact, the Ungettable Girl will do three things before attempting a No Contact Rule.
They learn everything there is to know about No Contact, before starting. Something that I didn’t mention in the quick crash course is that not everyone can do a strict No Contact rule. What if you have children with your ex, what if you work with your ex. There are certain situations where you need to know how to handle specific situations. One thing you ned to know is if you want to be Ungettable then you need to be extremely knowledgeable about what the No Contact rule Is.
The second thing the Ungettable Girl will do is determine the length of time that is needed to do the No Contact rule, we recommend three different lengths;
- 21 day rule
- 30 day rule
- 45 day rule
Now I recently did a podcast covering this exact topic, teaching people how to determine the length of No Contact they should be doing.
The third and final thing they should be doing before the No Contact rule they take some time to look at their exes actions and figure out what they want before they commit to this process.
#2 - During the No Contact Period,
Contrary to popular belief, the Ungettable Girl does the work to obtain the Ungettable status during the No Contact, I have noticed that there are 12 patterns and behaviors to become Ungettable. This is in my book I am writing so you will have to buy that to get all the informaiton. But it does involve the Holy Trinity, working on your Health Wealth and Relationships in your life. All need to be positive impacts on your life and the Ungettable Girl knows that the synergy of these three things is going to have a positive impact on your life. If you want to become an Ungettable Girl you need to spend a lot of time on the Holy Trinity,
#3 - After the No Contact Period,
This is where the Ungettable Girl becomes more actionable, and it also comes into the mindset of if you want your ex back or not after the No Contact rule is over. This is where you will need to go over to the website, www.exboyfriendrecovery.com and find articles that go into more information about what to do if you want your ex back, or if you want to move on
Coaching link - https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/coaching/
Pro link - https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/exboyfriend-recovery-pro-system/
Facebook support group - https://exrecovery.lpages.co/private-support-group/
Texting bible link - https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/the-texting-bible/
The no contact rule link - https://www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/no-contact-rule-book/