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Always attracting avoidants but ending up emotionally drained? Discover why independence—not neediness—is what makes avoidants stick around, and how you can foster secure, balanced love.
In today’s video, Thais Gibson explains why dismissive avoidants often commit to strong, independent partners—and how understanding this pattern can completely shift your relationship dynamic. Learn the four reasons this type of partner feels safest to avoidants, and discover three powerful strategies to maintain your own strength while encouraging healthy connection. Watch now to uncover how to create emotional closeness without self-abandoning, as Thais shares deep insights and practical tools for secure, lasting love.
00:00:00 – Why Avoidants Prefer Partners Who Don’t Need Them
00:00:24 – Understanding Relationship Stages
00:01:02 – The Power Struggle Stage & Avoidant Sabotage
00:01:15 – The Four Core Reasons Avoidants Seek Strong Partners
00:02:00 – The Cost of Codependency in Avoidant Relationships
00:03:00 – 3 Ways to Thrive with a Dismissive Avoidant
00:03:43 – How Anxious Traits Trigger Avoidant Withdrawal
00:04:24 – Why Independence Reduces Emotional Risk
00:05:16 – Emotional Safety Through Interdependence
00:06:14 – The Link Between Criticism, Shame & Avoidance
00:07:01 – How to Build Strength for Yourself, Not to Impress
00:08:00 – The Power of Interdependence Over Extremes
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