why I'm done proving my Masculinity 🧢 healing internalized transphobia, queerphobia + misogyny FSDS

I’ve been going through a huge shift in how I see myself, my masculinity, and maybe even who I’m romantically attracted to. For a long time, I subconsciously sought validation from cis gay men to affirm my masculinity, but now? I don’t think I need that anymore. I’m stepping fully into my non-binary trans manhood, letting go of the desire to even pass as cis, and embracing what NOW feels good, expansive, and true for me - queering it TF UP !

In this episode of the Future Self Data Set, I talk about:
✨ Healing internalized transphobia, misogyny & queerphobia
✨ Letting go of cis gay desirability standards
✨ Embracing queer, trans attraction in a new way
✨ De-centering the straight gaze

This shift has been huge—it’s like I’m finally landing in my own body. Let’s talk about it.

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