Why? vs Why Not? (And WHY I don't use WHY in the decluttering process)

Years ago, I had a mindset shift when a conversation with a friend revealed one big difference between how I viewed stuff and my home and the way she viewed stuff and her home. I'm sharing that shift, and how my five step decluttering process helps me finally have an answer to my own question of "Why not?" I also explain why the word "Why?" is harmful when helping others declutter. Mentioned: https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/book https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/podcasts My shirt: amazon.com/shop/aslobcomesclean