In today's video I describe the deeply embedded rule that the scapegoat child not know their strengths. An effective way of doing this is to add a caveat or 'yeah, but...' to signs of prowess and value. These caveats are convincing to the scapegoat child - especially when they operate unconsciously. Scapegoat survivors can persist this practice after childhood. I will offer an explanation - based on attachment theory - for why this happens. Last, I discuss how therapy can help you know it is now safe to stop caveating your strengths.
Growing Up as the Scapegoat to a Narcissistic Parent: A Guide to Healing
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXN2287H
A link to my online course to Recover from Narcissistic Abuse: https://jreidtherapy.com/narcissistic-abuse-course/
A link to an online self-study course for licensed therapists on effective therapy with survivors of narcissistic abuse - 3 CE credits:
https://lp.jreidtherapy.com/effective-therapy-narcissistic-abuse-course
The link to my free webinar on '7 Self-Care Tools to Recover from Narcissistic Abuse':https://jreidtherapy.com/webinar-self-care/
Here's the link to my e-book on Surviving Narcissistic Abuse as the Scapegoat: https://jreidtherapy.com/ebook-scapegoat-survivor/
Youtube series on Shame in recovery from Narcissistic Abuse: https://youtu.be/p4XmQhV54_g
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