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You are an internal object, so whatever you say is emanating from the inside, is perceived as an internal voice (an introject), akin to the narcissist’s internalized BAD object! This is why it is easy for the narcissist to convert you into a persecutory object.
Your speech is filtered via the cognitive distortion of grandiosity, so it is frequently perceived as challenging, manipulative, and threatening, or at the very least injurious (hypervigilance or paranoid ideation).
The narcissist deconstructs your speech to reveal hidden, true meanings.
Narcissist reframes your text to conform to his narrative and shared fantasy (confirmation bias). Coupled with his dissociation, this means that large parts of what you have said are completely and unconsciously ignored (dissociated).
Narcissist attributes to you what he believes that you should have said and then acts on this confabulation as if it were real. He carries out in his head dialogues with these imaginary texts.
Attribution error: whatever you say reflects who you are, not your choices. This reflects badly on the narcissist (you are an internal object) and results in aggression (rejection).
Narcissist pays more attention to what you haven’t said than to what you have actually said.
Phatic communication, echolalia, palilalia.
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