Stop being desperate, romantic relationships should add to your life, not define it. Relationships are not about chasing someone or losing yourself. It isn’t about waiting for someone to complete you – it’s about ensuring you’re already complete. We’re not here to chase validation or obsess over finding "the one." Being comfortable and knowing yourself is crucialll – because only then will you attract the a person who matches the same energy. Stop being desperate, romantic relationships should add to your life, not define it.The right person comes when you’re whole, not when you’re chasing
00:00 Coming Up Next
00:30 Intro
00:45 Being single is not something to escape – it’s something to embrace. These are the years where you truly discover who you are, without distraction. Learn to love your own company.
1:31 Stop obsessing over when you’ll meet someone. It’ll happen, but it’s not your focus right now.
2:00 Desperation Destroys Value
2:56 Female friendships thrive when they aren’t male-centric (a hill im willing to die on)
3:19 Your Worth Beyond Marriage
4:00 Be the partner you expect to attract. You cannot demand what you don’t embody. Be the Partner You Seek
4:43 If you desire a partner with money, ambition, or fitness, make sure you have those things too.
6:00 Define your non-negotiables early. Know exactly what you will and won’t accept in a relationship before emotions cloud your judgment. Write it down, be clear.
7:00 Keep Standards Private People can pretend to meet your standards.
7:50 You attract what you are. If you don’t uphold your own standards, no one else will.
8:30 Insecurity is your downfall. If you’re unsure of yourself, you’ll believe that any attention is a favor. Never let someone make you feel like you owe them.
9:00 The best partner will show up when you’re fully content being single.
10:00 Stop giving away pieces of yourself to those who don’t deserve it. Protect your energy, because once it’s gone, you’ll have nothing left.
10:50 Your partner is more than just your spouse – they will be a part of your family, the future parent of your children. Choose wisely.
12:00 You’ll never know someone 100%, but aim for 85%.
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