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the trauma of being an immigrant parent : 6 ways they suffered silently

Dimalya 187 lượt xem 3 weeks ago
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They gave up everything for us — their homes, families, and identities — just to build a better life. Struggling with language barriers, enduring racism, and working jobs far below their qualifications, their sacrifices often go unnoticed. It's time we stop making excuses and start showing them the love and respect they deserve. Don’t wait until it's too late. 🌷

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0:00 — Intro
Are we truly appreciating everything our immigrant parents sacrificed? Let's talk about it.

0:32 — Leaving Everything Behind
They left their entire lives behind — families, friends, everything familiar — all to give us a chance at a better future.

1:12 — Struggling with Language Barriers & Mockery
Imagine trying to adapt to a new country as an adult, learning a new language while being mocked for your accent and judged for not knowing English.

1:50 — Raising Us Without a Village
They did it all alone. No support system. No extended family. Just them navigating the challenges of parenthood by themselves, sometimes in total isolation.

4:04 — Enduring Racism Without a Voice
They faced racism every day, silently enduring it without the support or platforms to speak out.

5:56 — Hiding Their Pain to Protect Us
Even when the world felt heavy, they put on a brave face for us, protecting us from the pain they were silently carrying.

6:09 — We Were Their Only Friends
For so long, we were their entire world. No friends, no community, just us.

7:34 — Working Below Their Worth
They took jobs far beneath their qualifications — degrading work with no days off — just to keep food on the table. They had prestigious careers back home but had to start over from scratch.

10:17 — Aging Before Their Time
The stress they endured took a toll. They aged faster than their peers back home, their faces showing the weight of sacrifice.

11:30 — Living in Unsafe Areas
They lived in neighborhoods that weren’t safe, simply because it was all they could afford. Despite the dangers, they endured quietly.

12:50 — Doing It All for Us
Let's face it — they came here for one reason: us. It's time we acknowledge that.

14:08 — Stop Making Excuses
Stop using "I'm busy" or "I'm studying" as excuses not to spend time with them. They never were too busy for us.

14:58 — Show Them the Love They Deserve
You don’t need a lot of money to show gratitude. A simple phone call, a thoughtful gesture, or just spending time with them can mean the world.

16:51 — Time Is Precious
Life is short. Tomorrow isn't promised. Let’s not wait until it's too late to realize the depth of their sacrifices.

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