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Dating could be really tricky. Showing up pretty, well-dressed, and well-spoken is not going to guarantee a great dating experience. Modern women like us want to put real work on our mindset, and make sure that our magnetic glow is as genuine as it is irresistible. We have all heard countless feminine energy tips to take care of your love life and elevate your well-being. But how deeply do we understand them, and how well do we implement them in real life?
I'm here to provide us with a solution to that. Debrief Sesh is a community made by women for women everywhere with the same goal: understand what it means to be a high-value woman to ourselves. We respect differences, and honor the fact that every woman has her own vision of who she wants to be, and how she wants to be perceived. By discussing dating role models and female characters on TV series, dating shows, and popular culture moments, we turn these conversations into reflection tools, and figure out what it means for each of us to be our own dream girl.
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Every time a season of Single’s Inferno airs, there’s always a fan favorite. It was Song Ji-a in the first season, Lee Nadine in the second, and Choi Hye-seon in the latest. They have very different personalities, styles, hobbies, and ideal types, but there are certain things that they do have in common. I personally find these qualities to be very admirable and worth exploring.
I don’t want any of you to misunderstand the content of this video and assume it’s a guide to get male attention and validation. Sure, in reality, the most popular girls do get picked by men, like Ji-a in the first season and Hye-seon in the third. But the more you focus your energy on getting picked, the less energy you have to invest in your own development, which ironically results in worse dating experiences aka not getting picked. So, this video is going to guide you to popularity the right way.
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Pop culture context for clueless girlies (you're not alone, don't worry):
- Singles Inferno is a Korean Netflix dating show that has taken the world by storm from its first season, which was aired in 2021. The newest seasons have really taken it to another level with a lot of interesting characters and drama. In the show, attractive and young contestants are left stranded on an deserted island, and the only way to leave is to couple up and win a date in paradise.
- Song Ji-a is the most popular contestant in the first season. In fact, her presence was so iconic that she has been mentioned every time a new season of Single's Inferno airs. She's usually referred to as the it-girl for her magnetic charm, and she's been an inspiration for many girls and women. Her confidence is just as admirable as her social skills, which helps her become the most popular pick both during and after the show.
- Lee Nadine is the fan's favorite contestant in the second season. She's a Harvard graduate with an adorable personality. She didn't walk home with a match, but that doesn't make her any less interesting.
- Choi Hye-seon is the fan's favorite contestant in the third season. She went viral for her straightforward but respectful confrontation with Gwan-hee, when he failed to make up his mind about who he's going to choose. She's also well-know for a bubbly personality and passion for tropical fruits.
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⏰ timestamps
00:00 intro
01:44 being pretty
09:31 find a provider
15:50 let him know there's competition
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